Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.
Successful people make money. It's not that people who make money become successful, but that successful people attract money. They bring success to what they do.
The components of anxiety, stress, fear, and anger do not exist independently of you in the world. They simply do not exist in the physical world, even though we talk about them as if they do.